I am so sick of mind games from exes. It seems like the high school games continue well after you graduate from school.
If my readers can probably guess, the ex wife has reared her ugly head again. As many of you know I have been divorced now for 3 years. Within that 3 years me and the ex wife have had an up and down relationship as far as trying to get along and remain somewhat civil to each other. Well in the last few months that relationship has steadily been on the decline as she has done many things to try and ruin anything positive in my life.
When I thought things couldn't get any worse they have. Remember a few blogs back I wrote on how she hacked into my facebook account. Well, this time instead of hacking into my facebook account, she has decided to trash me on her facebook page. And for what reason you may ask? First off she had called me this past Wednesday night needing a ride from Club 609 where she had been drinking for a better part of the whole evening. I respectfully told her no that I was in the middle of something.
That was at 10 p.m. At 3 a.m. I was awoke to her calling again telling me that she needed a ride home because she was too intoxicated to drive. I again told her no that I was not about to leave our son alone for me to go and get her.
At 3:30 a.m. I recieve a message from a friend telling me to log into his wife's facebook telling me that there is something very interesting for me to see.
I do this and to my surprise, Krysti is posting all kinds of horrible stuff about me on facebook. Everything from me being a worthless piece of shit person to commenting on the size of well... manhood so to speak. As you could tell I was very pissed off about the whole ordeal and log out of my friends account.
The next afternoon she calls again, this time to apologize to me on how she reacted when I told her no. I then asked her about the comments on facebook. She flat out denied that she had done anything of the sort. I then pull up my account again and proceeded to read every post that she had made and then I read to her all the comments that were made. Some of the comments were made throughout the day with Krysti still responding to some.
I just told her to grow up and if she wanted to make it up to me then she should go back onto to facebook and apologize. At this point this has yet to be done. Really, I don't expect her too. I am tired of being nice. I guess being nice isn't working anymore.
Gloves are off now. Of course, I won't stoop to her level and bash her on facebook, but I will no longer do any favors for her anymore.
Friday, April 23, 2010
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My ex wife used to do the same kind of stuff. I can't say that I didn't antagonize it, but one of my very wise older friends that I golf with told me to take the high road and don't let them know that it got to you. People that do stuff like that do it for attention and thrive off the response or rise that they get from you. Once they realize that you don't care, they give up. It's no longer fun. It worked for me.
ReplyDeleteGood for you. You need to stand up for yourself, and hopefully she will stop running you over. Maybe after she see's how good you were to her then she will try to be nice to you again, and you guys will get along. I remember reading your other blog about this, and honestly, she sounds really immature, and things, probably won't change. I hope the best for you, good luck.
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