As some of you know I am divorced. Granted to some being divorced is a momentous occasion especially if the marriage was bad. I was very happy when my divorce was final because my marriage was bad and I did things to speed up the process of getting divorced as much as I could. When I left all I took with me when I left was just my clothes and my truck. However, three years later we were finally able to reach a settlement. She fought over every little thing imaginable. Even down to how the papers were punctuated.
Well we have been apart now going on 7 years. Even though we have been apart from each other for those 7 years she still tries to control my life. Not so much when it comes to our son Ethan. I have him more than she does and that suits her just fine considering she loves her party lifestyle and Ethan and all his sports gets in the way of her doing her thing. What she tries to control is what I do with my life. For example, when she finds out that I am trying to date someone she literally goes out of her way to foul things up with the new "girlfriend." This latest episode just happened a couple of weeks ago. I had discovered a great lady on Facebook. we had been friends all the way back from high school and we had decided to go out. Things with me and the new lady were great. We could talk for hours and had several things in common.
Well, one of my ex wife's favorite thing to do is "hack" into my facebook account and snoop around to find out what I am doing. She came across private messages that were sent between me and the new gal. My ex wife then proceeded to send rude and crude messages to this person pretending to be me. Not only were the messages rude and crude, but at one point she even told this person that we had been sleeping together and doing all kinds stuff. Since she was signed into my Facebook account she made it sound like I was the one who was saying all this stuff to this person. After the girl decided to stop seeing me I confronted my ex wife. She immediately admitted to me that she was the one who sent the messages to her. Her only excuse was that she was going to make it her life's mission to make sure that I am alone. My ex wife is just an evil person all the way down to the core. She says that she still loves me and that she wants me back. Until then, according to her, she will make sure that I am alone.
And they wonder why they are called exes.
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Awe, you poor guy! Remember what I told you yesterday about the 6 foot cobra! :-) It is all up to you now!
ReplyDeleteWow...this woman sounds like she has a lot of time on her hands. If I were you I would change my password to something a little more tricky :)
ReplyDeleteYour first mission should be to get her to meet someone else. My husband was married for 6 years before we met, and i met him right as he was going through the divorce. His ex wife's mission was to be a pain in the a** for us, talking about their sex life and calling non-stop. As soon as she met someone else (whome she is now currently married to) she left us alone. Jealousy is a very evil thing, and it sounds like she is jealous of you. When you start dating someone, I would let them know the circumstances, and try to keep your new love interest from getting upset. Good luck with everything, and I hope she can move on and let you live your life.
ReplyDeleteThank you everyone for the nice comments. As far as the Facebook account I contacted them directly and they put a security feature on my account so only I will be able to access it by a special code. I later found out from her that she went in and changed my password so she could get into it. As far as her leaving me alone, she still to this day is causing problems even though she is involved with someone. I have even confonted her and the guy she is with and she played it off as I am the one who is after her. Yuck! Anyway thanks again for the nice comments.
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