Here it is ladies and gentlemen, times have definately changed. According to foxnews.com (http://www.news.com.au/story/) a recent study had found that 84% of today's women are having sex mostly to cure boredom.
I'm not kidding around here folks. The story also states that many women are also having sex to ensure that they received gifts.
It definately seems to me that times have changed. Whatever happened to the "men" being the dogs? According to the study many women stated that they have had sex with men other than there boyfriends. Some of the reasons ranged from being bored, to receving gifts, and, get this, because they felt sorry for the man. None of the women suggested that they had sex because they were in love with the person with whom they were having sex with. Some women even stated in the study that they would have sex with their partners just so their partner would take out the trash. Give me a break. Is sex really that powerful of a tool? Or have women finally decided to use it as a tool?
Now I understand that this story doesn't appy to all women. I do know that there still are a huge number of women out there who does think that love should have an intrigual part in who they choose to have sex with. Better yet, does being in love with someone matter in more when it comes to having sex with someone? Does this mean that we, as a society, can now throw away the terms "whore" and "slut"? And if so, what about "man whore"? It would need to disappear to, right? Has sex become so mainstream now that it is just considered an activity? Maybe one day those questions can be answered.
While reading this story I couldnt help but to laugh to myself. Whatever happened to the men being the dogs and only after "one thing" when going out with a girl? I sounds like to me that some women have now taken over the label of being "the dog." Are men now going to be the ones who sit by the phone and wait for the girl to call him back after a night of "pleasure"? That still remains to be seen. Times have definaltely changed.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
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Oh my...lol...i cant help but laugh. Men use to be "the dogs", but now days, women are just as bad, if not worse. But you are right, not all women are like this. And as far as having sex with someone other than their boyfriends...isnt this considered cheating? do the boyfriends know about this? lol Men do, however, require more sex than women on average, so for women to use it as a tool...good for us lol just joking! I am married and i dont have to use it as a tool because my husband gives me anything i want anyways. I still cant stop laughing about this lol, Sorry...anywho. I dont think the words "slut, whore, or manwhore" will ever go away. It's a way to label men/woman and it will always be around. Love the story though.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed this story myself. I read it and considered blogging on it myself but decised against it. I do agree that SOME women are getting pretty bad at using sex as a bargaining tool. What else is bad is that some men let the women get a way with it. The story was interesting to say the least.
ReplyDelete84% of women are having sex to cure boredom? I know it exists but that number seems pretty darn high to me. I absolutely love the question you pose about sex becoming so mainstream that it could be considered an activity. So very true. Most people consider it acceptable to have sex on the 3rd date because anything before 3 dates is just moving too quickly. It makes me sad for the children of today, they just aren't allowed their innocence for very long these days.
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